How to mentally prepare yourself for successful weight loss

“You don’t have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great” – Zig Ziglar

Setting the stage for weight loss is as important as the weight loss plan itself. Before you make space in your daily schedule for diet and workout sessions, you need to set up your mind for losing weight successfully. That means you should prioritize and never say you don’t find the time when it comes to health and fitness.

image of a woman with a slim waist wearing jeans with a wider waist size
preparation is an important part of your weight loss plan
  • Define realistic and flexible goals

Break down your one big goal (losing 30 kilos, for example) into smaller goals, as I’d mentioned in “9 reasons why you are not losing weight.” Start with what you feel you can achieve, and slowly raise the bar. For example, you can start with 1 or 2 kilos per month and then increase to 3 or 4. That means becoming more stringent in both diet and exercise as you proceed in losing weight successfully and sustainably.

  • Choose the right time

Don’t start the weight loss plan when you’re going through some major changes like moving house or changing jobs. Take one change at a time. Wait for things to stabilize and choose a time when you are not more stressed than usual.

  • Don’t plan to lose weight just for a major event

Trying to lose weight because your sister’s/ best friend’s wedding is coming up next month? Or a family get-together? It just doesn’t work because, number one, you’re sure to throw away all that caution and restraint the moment the event is over and number two, you’ll lose all faith in the weight loss plan because even if you had lost weight, you’re going to gain it all back in no time. Any weight loss plan has to be slow and steady for it to work and be sustainable.

  • Check with your doctor

If you’re taking medication or gained too much weight in too little time or if you feel the weight gain is genetic, then you might want to consult your doctor before embarking on a weight loss plan.

  • Choose your weight loss meal plan

Seeing a dietician is the best option; in case it’s not possible, you can draft your own weight loss diet plan. based on your current diet and lifestyle. It might seem daunting to make overall changes in your diet, so start by planning to cut down on sugar, salt, processed and fried food in your current diet and add more protein and vegetables.

  • Start a journal

I used to jot down on a notebook my weekly goals, diet, and exercise sessions and loved to tickmark each column when it gets done. Old-fashioned, but very effective. Try it and you’ll love it too! And don’t forget to add your once-a-week cheat day meal, when you can allow yourself a controlled portion of the food you’ve been craving for.

  • Control stress

High levels of the stress hormone cortisol are known to increase your cravings for junk food and accumulate belly fat. So it’s a lose-lose situation. Find ways to de-stress so that you eliminate one of the silent roadblocks that prevent weight loss.

  • Don’t give up if you slip a little

All is not lost if you eat a cupcake. Since you’ve broken the rules for weight loss, don’t go for another. And another. Don’t use it as an excuse to give up. STOP right there and promise yourself to get back on track. Forgive yourself and jot down in your journal to do some extra squats and cancel your cheat meal for the week since you already used it up.

image of a woman running
workout sessions should be a part of your daily schedule
  • Believe in yourself

Don’t let past failures haunt you. Just because you failed to lose weight once doesn’t mean you can’t lose weight forever. The best thing is that you’re determined and well prepared (that’s what it means if you’re reading this!) to start your weight loss plan and that’s half the battle won.

So, is all the hype and preparation necessary, and worth it? Of course. If you do not have a proper plan in place, there’s a lot of chance that you might give up. So, go for it!

Tips on preparing yourself physically for weight loss is coming up soon!!


  1. Hi, this article really helpful for me to mentally prepare my weight loss. I am confused for choosing the best weight loss plan what would be the best for everything. But review this article my confusion is clear i am motivated for my weight loss, Thanks.

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  2. Wow! Such awesome tips in regard to mentally prepare myself for successful weight loss, I love to get fit. I remember there were awesome days when I’d first time take exercise for the fun of it and it was fantastic, I glad to have a blog to accompany me in my quest.

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    • Hi Marty, I’m glad too, to know that my blog can make a difference! I’ve been through this fitness journey, and trust me, it all becomes part of your life and you don’t even have to try hard any more.


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